It’s the first day of the semester, and the teacher explains that part of your grade will be based on a group project.

Everybody groans.

Group projects can be one of the most frustrating parts of high school. There always seems to be one partner who doesn’t do their share, or who wants to do everything their way. Things get put off until the last minute. To protect your grade, you may end up doing other people’s work. Or it may simply be that you’re not comfortable working with a group, especially with people you don’t know well.

You probably can’t choose your group, but you can make the experience easier. Here are a few tips to help keep a group project from becoming a bigger problem.

Finalize the Plan Before You Start

Probably the easiest way for a group project to go off the rails is for everyone having a different idea of what they’re supposed to do.

Make sure the group understands the assignment – and everyone’s role – before anyone starts working. Decide what needs to be finished, who’s handling each part, and when each piece needs to be done.

Try to make responsibilities specific. “I’ll handle the presentation, you do slides, you do write-up” isn’t much to go on. Make the plan concrete: for example, decide together what slides you need, what they should look like, and which slides will be needed, who will do research, and who will make the presentation.

Do Your Part Early Enough for Others to Use It

It’s not enough to just do your assigned task. If someone else needs your information to finish their section, a delay on your part can quickly become a delay for everyone.

That’s not to say you must take responsibility for the entire project. Just make sure your teammates can count on you to do what you agreed to do.

If something comes up and you can’t finish on time, tell everyone as soon as you know. A quick message gives everyone a chance to adjust.

When Someone Isn’t Doing Their Part

Almost every group project, it seems, includes one person who isn’t pulling their weight. 

They may not understand the assignment. They may have misunderstood what they were supposed to do. Or they may simply have fallen behind. 

Instead of complaining about the person in the group chat, find out what’s going on. Ask them privately if they need help figuring out their part. A direct conversation may resolve the problem.

If the work still isn’t getting done, the group may need to divide tasks differently or revisit the deadlines. And while it shouldn’t be your first move, consider talking to your teacher. It’s better to explain the situation before the project’s due date than to wait until the last minute and hope things work out.

You Don’t Have to Win Every Disagreement

People don’t always agree on how a project should look. Maybe you want to give a presentation, while someone else thinks a video would be better. Someone may believe their approach is the strongest; you may disagree.

First and foremost, keep disagreements about the work, not the people. Explain the thought process behind your ideas, listen to others’ reasoning, and consider the assignment requirements. 

Sometimes the best solution isn’t anyone’s first choice. If the group can’t agree, look at the requirements, everyone’s abilities, and available time to help make the decision. The goal is to finish a good project, not to prove whose idea was best.

Check the Finished Project Together

Dividing up the project doesn’t mean you should wait until the deadline to see what everyone else has done.

Before submitting, have the group go over the assignment and look at the finished project. Check that the pieces fit together, the information is accurate, and nothing important was left out.

Also, keep in mind that teachers may ask individual students questions about the project. You should understand the basics of the group submission, even if you weren’t responsible for every part.

Group Projects Are a Skill

You don’t have to love group projects. You may always prefer working alone.

But school won’t always let you choose. Learning how to communicate, meet commitments, handle disagreements, and speak up when something isn’t working can make group projects much less stressful. Those skills can be useful throughout your life. 

For now, start with something simple: know what you’re responsible for, do it on time, communicate when there’s a problem, and treat your group members like people you’d want to work with again.